May 16, 2016: The Lessons of 10 Years Ago Revisited

Dear Friend, 

Ten years ago on this day, May 20, 2016, I was hit head-on by a drunk driver going 60 mph. I shouldn’t have survived. Some of you may remember this happening in real time. A decade later, this is my story:

Thanks to Bailey Gaylin Moore and Past Ten Magazine for allowing me to tell this important story on a very important anniversary. 

These are lessons I always need to hear and remember.
Maybe you do, too?

May 20th, 2016 – Nancy Stohlman

The Bargain

On May 20, 2016, I was hit by a drunk driver in broad daylight on a three-lane interstate during rush hour. I was on my way to an open mic reading, already running late. I was wearing my new jeans, a striped t-shirt and my favorite pink Victoria’s Secret bra. These would all be unceremoniously scissored off in the ambulance, sliced right down the middle. Only my shoes and belt would survive.

Read it at PAST TEN MAGAZINE (and support their work)

Thanks for reading and loving me, now and then. 

To your biggest creative life,
Love,
Nancy


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Radical Creativity: Art, resilience, and sustainable practices for writers in dark times


A special 90-min Virtual Workshop and Conversation 

Friday, May 1 at 11 am MST via Zoom REGISTER FOR FREE HERE

To be an artist in dark times is a radical act. Maybe you’ve even found yourself in fight, flight, or freeze, wondering how is making art helping anything?

We live in a culture that profits on our exhaustion, commodifies our attention, worships productivity, and values us as consumers over citizens, a society that can’t understand or appreciate the calling or patience of the creative process.

To stay creative in these times is an act of resistance, one that requires compassion, courage, and loving diligence. In this workshop and conversation we will invite the elephant in the room to be named, we will embolden both our lives and our art with tools, strategies, and a clear-seeing awareness of the true stakes, and we will unpack our vital, critical, and changing role as the artistic visionaries of our time.

This is an invitation to a deeper possibility of peace, joy and wonder in your creative practice, integrating craft, mindset, and sustainability as your own personal site of resistance.Together we will re-imagine and reclaim our long-term creative lives while we strengthen each other in doing the radical work of staying.

xoxo Nancy

Announcing NEW 2027 Retreats!

In this chaotic world, even dreaming about a retreat feels good.

February 1-7, 2027, we will be returning to Playa Negra, Costa Rica, this time joined by Selah Saterstrom, to immerse ourselves and our writing in the magic of the jungle, the howl of monkeys, and the majesty of the Pacific Ocean.

May 23-28, 2027, we will be traveling to the famous Ghost Ranch in Abiquiu, New Mexico, to work on our books in Georgia O’Keeffe’s (actual!) studio space for a 5-day, time-out-of time communion with ghosts of artists past.


And we are SOLD OUT IN GRAND LAKE this September, but I’m beginning a waiting list.

There are TWO SPOTS LEFT IN SPAIN this October! We would LOVE to have you!

Registration opens to the public in April.

Want early access??

Many retreats have been known to sell out before they open to the public.

Request the registration link 24 hours before it goes public! 

A Big Announcement for 2026

Happy Monday!
I promised you an announcement last month…so here it is!
xoxo Nancy

To that end, here’s how to work with me in 2026:

HOW TO WORK WITH ME:


As part of my vision for 2026, I will be streamlining how I work with writers, giving my best attention to the cultivation of the whole artist (craft, mind, and spirit) and prioritizing containers where we do the deeper work of visioning and creating sustainable, joyful, life-long creative practices. How lucky we are to get to be creatives in this life!

The Creative Mastermind: The Creative Mastermind is my soul project, a creative incubator of content, accountability, community, and support, and I work right alongside you, sharing my own challenges and breakthroughs in real time. Is 2026 the year you start, make progress on, or complete your book? The Mastermind is a 6-month program, but I am offering a limited 3-month “Mastermind Mini” for those of you who are ready to take a first step. Reach out with questions!

Open Your Art Writing Retreats: Perhaps you’ve been dreaming of joining us in person? These experiences are more than just writing retreats–they are truly transformational encounters with your creative work. Reach out with questions!
Grand Lake, Colorado: September 15-20 
Malaga, Spain: September 29-October 5